Sensual Massage for Women Goes Mainstream

Not long ago within our culture, there was a myth that women were not very sexual. If they were, they did not enjoy it, much. It was also not long ago that sex toys were hidden and shameful. It is safe to say that toys and aids have gone main stream. Women are inherently sexual beings and it is the time of our sexual re-awakening. Couples know that sexual intimacy is a major player in being happy together. Not main stream sex as the photo shopped implanted poreless, sweatless, hairless flawless creatures who perform antics designed solely to keep a man’s penis hard or quickly bring him to ejaculation. I’m talking pleasure, beautiful, raw, real, deep. unencumbered, uninhibited mind blowing physical pleasure and the shared intimacy required to create that state over and over and over again.

Another popular misconception is that men are only in it for themselves. They just want to blow a load and use a woman to get off. I’d venture to say that the majority of men secretly want to be the best lover that the woman he’s with has ever had. So what is stopping him? Partly education, impatience, general lack of sensual awareness, but a bigger factor is the woman herself. There are men who are naturally incredible lovers but ladies, you can prime yourselves to be made love to like a sex goddess. It is a woman’s responsibility to know what she needs, what she wants, what she likes and to be able to communicate that clearly to the man that she expects to give it to her.

We women know how to orgasm now. We do it easily and efficiently alone with our toys, often to the exclusion of men who just can’t really get it right. It’s just easier to get the job done alone. But if you had a partner whose touch set you on fire, who knew every nuance of your body and knew how it changed day to day – even hour to hour – and accommodated that. With whom you felt comfortable taking as long as you needed to to orgasm, who you knew would be more than happy to accept directions even as specific as moving his tongue over 1 millitre to the left and half a centimetre lower and going slower, yes slower, yes that is perfect… can you go faster now, and harder… will you massage my Gpot at the same time (without breaking pace)? Press harder please, deeper… Having your body worshiped and pleasured by a perceptive and enthusiastic lover is a treat like nothing else, if you had a man with a magic touch who could do this and take you to another world… you’d be more of an enthusiastic participant than an avoider.

Sitting around reading 50 shades of grey and then getting off alone is not going to ever fully satisfy you, nor is your ideal fantasy man going to spring up out of nowhere forcing you from passivity and magically turn you into the sex goddess you know you really are. But YOU can be proactive and learn exactly what your body needs and how to communicate that to a man so that he can do it to you and for you. Yes, even the annoying ones who pester and guilt you and sigh over not getting sex this weekend and seem to turn you off more with every irritating word they say after 10 years of doing the same thing. Men, bless them, are willing to learn and like nothing more than to see us in ecstasy. And you know what? Allowing him to do this to you and for you will bring you closer together emotionally, resentments magically dissolve once ecstatic exchanges come into play. Truly.

There is a movement towards sensual massage for women. Legitimate bodywork from educated and skilled passionate professionals of integrity, that heals emotional wounds, elevates body image, increases responsiveness and sexual interest, libido, invigorates and teaches a woman about her body. Teaches her to have the power to communicate and get her needs met. It is an environment like no other, safe, comfortable environment of exploration where the full focus is on your body and your needs. Pamela Madsen is a very visible pioneer in this movement hosting retreats and workshops, many Tantrikas, Dakas and Dakinis and private practitioners such as myself have been doing it discreetly for a long time – discreetly due to cultural misunderstandings about the nature of sensual bodywork. The time has come where women are waking up, reclaiming their sexuality. They are not playing the victim or passive creature of sexual neglect. We want, crave, and expect sexual satisfaction and amazing intimacy in our lives and realize now that it is up to us to create it.

I predict that within a relatively short period of time, massage for women’s sensual awakening and education is going to be as mainstream and considered NECESSARY as vibrators, dildos, sex toys, lingerie and other erotic aids.

Three Reasons You And Your Family Should Get A Florida Home Property To Live In

Have you ever thought about bringing your family to a location that can provide you all with a quality of living that is beyond other places within the United States? Does the idea of buying your own Florida home property start to sound more practical now that its housing market is doing particularly well with its recovery? If so, you should probably look deeper into why you and your family should go ahead and do it.

Did you know that there are so many people who live within the state of Florida that are not originally from the region? Well, it’s true! In fact, more and more people are now looking into the opportunity to establish life within the region along with their families because it is one of the best places within the United States for family living.

People who are not entirely sure about whether or not they should get a Florida home property to live in will definitely want to consider our list of three reasons why you should.

Reason #1: The weather is absolutely great!

If there is one reason why so many people from all around the world come to visit the Sunshine State, it is because of the sunshine! That’s correct; millions of people spend time in the region to indulge in its great humid subtropical climate. If you and your family love warmth, you will love living in Florida. Even if you are someone who is simply looking to run away from the chilly winter months, a Florida home property is definitely something you should look into so that you can look forward to spending time in a mild, sunny location.

Reason #2: Boredom does not exist in Florida!

Family living doesn’t have to be boring and that’s exactly why it’s going to be a great idea to get a Florida home property; boredom does not exist in the Sunshine State! If you want your family to be able to experience the wondrous things that are available in the world, you should definitely consider cities such as Orlando and Miami because doing so will grant you access to shopping malls, fishing towns, theme parks, and so much more! With the number of activities that are available within the region, you’ll never have to plan another major family outing because everything will be right in the state you live in!

Reason #3: Beaches are less an one hour away!

The state of Florida is located in the southeastern part of the United States making it bound to the east by the Atlantic Ocean. If you and your family love spending time at the beach, choosing to live in your own Florida home property will grant you access to beaches that will always be close to home. In fact, you might find it even better to choose among Florida home property options that are found within minutes from the region’s top beaches which include Delray Beach, Naples, South Beach, Siesta Key, Atlantic Beach, Captiva Island, and Key West.

Of course, there are many more reasons why you and your family should get a Florida home property to live in. If you would like to find out about how you can make your family lifestyle a whole lot better for you and your loved ones, you are encouraged to get in touch with a professional real estate agent that can provide you with full details regarding all of your available options on today’s property market.

Addiction – When Gambling Becomes a Problem

While most people enjoy casino gambling, sports betting, lottery and bingo playing for the fun and excitement it provides, others may experience gambling as an addictive and distractive habit. Statistics show that while 85 percent of the adult population in the US enjoys some type of gambling every year, between 2 and 3 percent of will develop a gambling problem and 1 percent of them are diagnosed as pathological gamblers.

Where can you draw the line between harmless gambling to problem gambling? How can you tell if you or your friend are compulsive gamblers? Here you can find answers to these questions and other questions regarding problem gambling and gambling addiction.

What is the Meaning of Problem Gambling?

Problem gambling or compulsive gambling is defined as an uncontrollable urge to gamble despite the destructive effect of gambling on the gamblers life and despite feelings of guilt and remorse. Problem gambling tends to have a negative effect on the gamblers financial state, relationships and daily life. Severe cases of problem gambling can be defined as pathological gambling.

Am I a Compulsive Gambler?

1) Do you gamble until your last penny runs out?

2) Do you gamble to win back your former losses or debts?

3) Did you ever had to borrow money to continue gamble?

4) Did your gambling habit ever made you lie to your friends or family?

5) Did you ever skip work or other obligation to gamble?

6) Do you tend to gamble to forget about your personal problems or to celebrate happy occasions?

7) Does gambling have a negative affect on your daily life or relationships?

If you have answered yes on at least one of the questions listed above, then you have a problem.

Can Anyone Become a Compulsive Gambler?

Theoretically, yes. Any gambler can develop gambling problem regardless to the type of gambling he is occupied with, the amount of money and time he is spending on gambling. Researches show that slot machines that can be found in bars and convenient stores are the most addictive type of gambling activity, while lottery draws and bingo games are located on the other end of the scale. Gambling addiction is an emotional problem; its symptoms, causes and treatments are similar to any other form of addiction.

How Can I treat Gambling Addiction?

1) Group Therapy:

Gamblers Anonymous offers a 12 step self help program similar to the one offered to alcohol addicts in Alcoholics Anonymous. Group therapy also offers gambling addicts advice and support from professional counselors and other gambling addicts in different phases of their recovery process. Gambler Anonymous centers are available in more than 1,200 locations statewide.

2) Individual Therapy:

Cognitive or behavior therapy can help gambling addicts to identify their unaware thinking and acting patterns, which led them to gamble compulsively, and to replace them with controllable and healthier ways of thinking.

3) Psychiatric Medication:

It has recently been proven that antidepressant medications from the family of SSRIs, selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors can be affective in treatment of gambling addicts.